"My name is Susannah Sneh and I am from Liberia. I came to the United States in 2000. My life changed when I suddenly lost my husband of 13 years on October 27, 2016 at age 66. Prior to this, I had retired 4 years before the loss of my husband, due to an accident.” Susannah reported that the effect on her was not only physical, but mental as well. “The life that I had and knew was no more, I was devastated, depressed and alone.” Susannah reported that, “I spent most of my time indoor mourning my husband; I withdrew from my family and would cried myself to sleep.” She stated that she did not go out and was at times reluctant to allow visitors into her home. She would often “look at the chair where her husband sat in and just cried.” Susannah stated that “one day, a lady” she knew came to sympathize with her. She told Susannah about the Elder’s Circle Program at Multicultural Community Family Services (MCFS) and encouraged her to attend the program. Susannah shared that “I was reluctant and did not go. After the burial of my husband, my nephew encouraged me to spend some time with him and his family.” Whilst there, a neighbour also told her about the program at MCFS. Reluctantly she decided to attend the program. Susannah stated that “this was the turning point in my life. I experienced togetherness with other seniors, through the activities that were provided by staff members. I suddenly experienced a huge change in my life, from being alone and depressed to being happier, confident and more engaging. I learned new skills like sewing, knitting, crocheting and engaging into therapeutic group activities. “ I was able to share my experiences of the loss of my husband, my accident and the life I had prior to his passing. Presently, Susannah is the ‘self-proclaimed’ President of the Elder’s Circle Group. I enjoy being the President and have recommended several members to be a part of the group.”

Ma Susannah
Country of Origin: Liberia
Program: Elders Circle